So I ended up going with trying the drop-in-cakepan method for my DIY snare. Honestly, it works really well, however I did have the problem with a "hot pad". So i purchessed a 4.7k resister, and a 10k resister. I tried the 10k first, because I read that was the recommended. I was suprised at how well it worked, however it still didn't seem right. No matter how much I tampered with my settings, it still just didn't seem to respond as well as I thought it should. I don't have the settings in front of me, however I can post them later if you want. If I play slowly and carefully each note seems to be how I hit it, however the faster I go the more inconsistant it becomes. I just wanted to ask if the reason I'm having sensitivity issues at higher speeds is due to the fact that I have Pearl Mesh Heads for my drum? I read that they are crap, and just wanted to know if that might be my problem.
If that is not the case, i will post pictures of my snare, and post my current settings, and go into all the internals of my D-I-C snare.
For my next attempted at making a tom/snare, I will probably be doing the Hellfire X4L Cakepan Mylar Reflection Plate design, and see how tha flys. For some reason, I think the foam cone might also have something to do with my sensitivity problems (FYI, I got the cones and Peizo's from Quartz).
Edit...
That was NOT implying that the cones were of bad quality! Infact, I think they are great quality! I just think a reflection plate design seems to be better for the Megadrum (since there is no PS)