ole_hansen wrote: but my real problem is that i can't get the MD to work in anything.
as stated BFD2 etc.etc. recognizes the MegaDrum, but the Midi LED isn't lightning up in any program (when MD is set to both midi-in and midi-out).
If Atmega came from Synthex than it should have been programmed. LED should light up only if there are input signals. It also won't light up even with input signals if the LED polarity is reverse.
In general, you should read this: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=352
E.g. if you haven't connected anything to MegaDrum, why do you expect that BFD should see any MIDI activity or that the MIDI LED should light up?
For the lack of a thorough description of the problem I can only give a very general piece of advice - check for soldering/short circuits/bridges, correct resistors/capacitors/crystal values, correct polarity of diodes.